I'm having a bad day with commenting. sorry, i re-read my comment and it seemed really know- it-all and annoying. Isaac is really cute, he is getting big! They grow really fast, don't they? I look at ethan and have trouble imagining he was that small once. Good luck on helping Alexis to not hit, I think you guys are great parents and i'm sure you will think of something.
He is such a cutie! I love 3 month olds. I really feel like babies "wake up" at that age. Ya know?
As for hitting... I plan to check back to your comments to see what advice other offer, because hitting is a problem around here too. (I am a little relieved to know that Lexi is doing it too!) Ian has been hitting baby Joseph from day one. He gets to jealous when I nurse! So yeah, send the wisdom my way when you figure out what to do!
Hi Monette!! One thing Chad's sister Rachel did when she had the twins and they'd hit- is she would put the "hitter" on her lap and fold their arms and hold them for a few minutes. It seemed to be effective- I'll probably end up using that technique. Mallori doesn't have any siblings to hit yet...so tell me how it goes.
Monette, I think Kate's idea is great. I've used that before with my kids and it kind of reinforces that their hands were what did the bad thing...does that make sense? Anywho, I can't believe Isaac is 3 months already. I can't believe my baby is 6 weeks already. Where does the time go?
my sister Barb would also hold them and explain that hitting was not acceptable but she also would put them on top of the dryer as a time out. but in my opinion whatever works for you, hitting is one thing that they will eventually grow out of (me and Doug) if they know they will get unpleasant results from the parents. Steph
Lexi wanted me to trace her foot on one of those magnetic drawing boards. So I traced her foot but didn't go between all the toes and when I was done I said, "There, how's that," Disappointed she said, "Uh, not so good. " And put her hand down to be traced instead. March '10:
Usually when we go out as a family to eat we go to Arctic Circle. They have a fun kid's play zone there. One night we all went out to eat at Chilli's. We were all happily eating our food and Mark leaned over to Isaac and said, "This is fun isn't it?" Lexi disagreed, "There's no slide here," and took another bite. March '10: It was REALLY windy one day and I heard a thump outside. The wind had knocked over the garbage can and I told Lexi what happened. Her response, "Not a good choice, wind!!" with her finger up in the air. 3/2/10
Me: What's your favorite color?
Lexi: Peanut Butter
3/1/10
Lexi was laying on my lap. When I asked if she was tired she said,"I'm going to sleep here." I tickled her a little and she said, "Don't tickle me. I'm not laughing." A few seconds later... "Tickle me!"
2/16/10
Mark was getting Lexi a drink and requested one of Isaac's sippy cups. Mark asked why she wanted that one and she replied, "'cause I'm silly"
2/13/10
We got a blue Hawaiian Punch that Lexi had never had before. She took a sip of it, looked at her cup and said, "Mmm that good! I feel better!"
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I'm having a bad day with commenting. sorry, i re-read my comment and it seemed really know- it-all and annoying. Isaac is really cute, he is getting big! They grow really fast, don't they? I look at ethan and have trouble imagining he was that small once. Good luck on helping Alexis to not hit, I think you guys are great parents and i'm sure you will think of something.
He is such a cutie! I love 3 month olds. I really feel like babies "wake up" at that age. Ya know?
As for hitting... I plan to check back to your comments to see what advice other offer, because hitting is a problem around here too. (I am a little relieved to know that Lexi is doing it too!) Ian has been hitting baby Joseph from day one. He gets to jealous when I nurse! So yeah, send the wisdom my way when you figure out what to do!
Hi Monette!! One thing Chad's sister Rachel did when she had the twins and they'd hit- is she would put the "hitter" on her lap and fold their arms and hold them for a few minutes. It seemed to be effective- I'll probably end up using that technique. Mallori doesn't have any siblings to hit yet...so tell me how it goes.
How is Twin?? And Assisting Hands?
Monette, I think Kate's idea is great. I've used that before with my kids and it kind of reinforces that their hands were what did the bad thing...does that make sense? Anywho, I can't believe Isaac is 3 months already. I can't believe my baby is 6 weeks already. Where does the time go?
my sister Barb would also hold them and explain that hitting was not acceptable but she also would put them on top of the dryer as a time out. but in my opinion whatever works for you, hitting is one thing that they will eventually grow out of (me and Doug) if they know they will get unpleasant results from the parents.
Steph
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